These are other writing expected of me, but these are assigned by my Childhood Development Class.
Chapter 5
My baby was 6 pounds at birth and now, four months
later, weighs about 9 pounds. The doctor said his weight is in the 20th
percentile. My husband and I are both large people so I was a little surprised.
I’m breastfeeding and have not yet introduced any supplements or solids. Should
I be concerned? Most of the growth he has experienced seems to be in his head.
Does the head grow at the same pace as the rest of the body? If it’s because of
the brain, why does it grow so much in early childhood? After all, he hasn’t
learned that much yet.
Dear Abbey,
A child in the
20th percentile is not one that you should be concerned with because
you are providing everything readily. The earliest that I would recommend you
to begin feed your child addition food is at the age of 6 months.
I would exhort you to trust nature more, for there
should be nothing wrong with your child. Your child was born with 25 percent of
the weight of his brain, and it should triple in weight by age 2. The growth of
the brain to be able to accomplish the cognitive grow that you have referred to
is so great the head and brain is closely monitored to have this growth that
you are observing.
I like that you want to know what is good for your
child.
Sincerely
Alex
My newborn daughter seems to sleep all the time.
Sometimes she wakes up just long enough to eat. Is that normal? The worst part
about it is that she is more likely to be awake at night than during the day.
My friend says I should not let her start any bad habits and should be
insistent on a schedule where she eats during the day and sleeps at night. I’ve
tried to let her cry it out a few times, but it seems to be hard on all of us.
Also, she seems to sleep better when she sleeps with us. Is this OK? Is it
dangerous for her to sleep with us? Lastly, is it better if she sleeps on her
stomach or her back?
Dear Abbey,
Do you really believe that man knows what is best for a
child, ignoring the natural tendencies of child? Children will adapt to normal
life. Your child wants to live like you, but it should not be forced. This
development can be delayed as long 4 or 5 years, if you seek to develop a
“mature child’s habits” of eating during the day and sleeping at night from the
beginning of her live. When children are able to adapt to life at their own
pace this maturation is much more quickly to a more normal sleeping and eating
pattern.
Sleeping with your child is a controversial action.
Sleeping with your child makes life most easy for the child and you; however,
it is also dangerous for the child’s life. A soft bed, blankets, and sleeping
in the wrong position are situations that are life- threatening. You can
possibly crush the child, when you move in your sleep. Newborn children should
be placed to sleep near their parents not on the bed and on their back. These
are the most official recommendations. If you want the best of both worlds, you
would have to sleep without sheets on a hard mattress. The professional advice is that you should
not sleep with your daughter.
Sincerely,
Alexander Hicken
I’m worried about my infant son. I think something is
wrong with his eyes. They don’t seem to be connected right. One eye seems to
look one direction and the other eye another direction. Also, he doesn’t look
at things unless they are really close. Does it sound like he has vision
problems? I’m in the dark on where his other senses should be also. What should
I look for? I do, however, think his fine motor skills are doing fine because
he has a strong grasp and will already move his legs in a stepping fashion if I
hold him up so he can pretend to walk. My husband just thinks it’s reflexes,
but I thought those had more to do with sucking. How old are they before they
sit up, crawl, or begin to walk?
Dear Abbey,
Your child is mortal. He will not be born with his eyes
working properly. This is normal. Your child should have developed binocular
vision as he turns 14 weeks of age. Binocular vision is the normal eye
development that you are looking for.
Concerning the gross development unto walking, I
encourage you not to force this development. Children seek to push their limit
on their own. Your attempts to accelerate this growth can be harmful. There is
a natural reflect to move the legs in the walking movement if held in that
position. You can see growth every three months. Your son with be able to sit
comfortably in your arms or supported as he has lived his third month. At his
sixth month they should be able to sit on their own will. The ninth month is
when they begin practicing standing, and an average child walks at his first
birthday.
Your child is developing well.
Alex
Chapter 6
My
infant son used to put anything in his mouth, but now he seems to be more
selective. He won’t even take a bottle unless the nipple is a certain shape.
And his rooting reflex seems to be gone. Is it normal for children to become
picky? My friend says it’s tied to his cognitive development. If so, what other
indicators can I look for to chart his cognitive progress? Are there certain
milestones I should look for? How can they really tell if children are
learning, since children don't have the language skills to express themselves?
Dear
Abbey,
Your
child has learned to habitually drink from the nipple that you have bought for
him. This shows that he has adapted, developing a habit. Habits are extremely
hard to brake in babies; especially when it satisfies his need for comfort.
Your son likes its pacifier, and he is going to give it up. This happens after
the first month or so. There are progressive steps to the cognitive development
of your child.
There
are the primary, secondary, and tertiary circular reaction stages of
development in the theory of cognition, which Jean Piaget put together. There
are many thoughts concerning the stages of cognitive growth of children, but I
will inform you of Piaget’s concepts, since he is the figure-head of the
theory.
Your
child is in the primary circular reaction stage, but the secondary circular
reaction stage will begin around be 4th month of mortality,
approaching the Tertiary circular reaction stage by his 1st
birthday, and this stage will last one year. They are called circular reaction
to be self-explanatory. Children continually need to do the same thing over and
over to effectively understand life and develop their brain. There are 2 steps
in each stage connected in development for each stage.
After
turning reflects into habits in the first stage, the second stage seeks after
more memory. They make experiences of joy for themselves, trying to lengthen
these experiences. They may grab at your hair over and over again. In the
second step, children have a goal in their acts. After they learn the natural
reactions to their actions, they attempt to choose and anticipate the fruits of
their acts. They may act to begin a game that you have played with them.
After
your sons first year of age, they become “little scientists” according to the
terminology of Piaget. Since they are coming to understand life, they continue
to try to understand the world, becoming more independent. An example of a
“little scientist” is that your son may wonder how the toothpaste in the tube
does not just fall out, so he will realize that squeezing it out make the substance
come out of the tube.
In
the last six months of the Tertiary Circular Reaction Stage, they can predict
by cognitive processes that will happen without experimentation with simple
problem solving skills. They begin to put two and two together. For example they realize that pulling the tail
of a cat and the reaction is constant; therefore, he may quit pulling the cats
tail.
These
are the cognitive developments of the first couple years of a child. I would
not worry about whether you child is learning; unless, his development does not
match these average cognitive developments because your child is adapting to
live, which is a sign of intelligence, making millions of mental connections.
Have fun and enjoy your son.
Sincerely
Alexander
Hicken
How old are children before they learn to speak in full sentences?
I know children all over the world learn to speak their own language, but are
the process for learning language similar for all children? My husband thinks
learning English takes children longer than most of the other languages. What
are some of the key milestones in learning language that I might look for? Does
it help or hurt if I speak baby talk to my baby? My son is almost 18 months old
and hardly says anything, and when he does speak, it’s usually just a single
word. Is that typical? I would appreciate any ideas you might have for helping
me teach my child to speak.
Dear
Abbey,
Children’s
language develops late beginning in the second half of the child’s second year
of life. Since your child in 18 months old, just beginning learning how to
speak is on pace of excellent cognitive development. Your child can speak
sentences as early as his second birthday. It is amazing that he will learn how
to speak with a great number of words in just six months. Soon your child will
have a vocabulary that is exploding, learning up to one hundred words a month.
These are some of the greatest averages seen. You seem to have high
expectations for the learning of our language of your child.
There
is a similar development process for all children; although, your husband is
right the strict grammar expectations of English makes the learning cognitively
more difficult; therefore, slower.
Children
can connect an object to sounds they not be the real word pronounced, but they
can have a few words to speak at his first birthday.
Babbling
and these relations begin about six months into his first year of life, lasting
about three months. Children begin communicating by their fourth month of age;
other-than, the year mark to learn words, the slow development of vocabulary
between, the explosion of vocabulary in the eighteenth month, and the sentence
formulations at his second birthday, you will see that your son will be able
put two words together when he is about 21 months old.
The
relations that can be developed with babbling is developing of a great
relationship especially as you come to know the words that are not pronounced
well, but they have been made with connections subjects. You could have begun a
communicating relationship with your child before he was six months old. This
deep relationship of communicating can be developed even before he is born.
Reading to him in your womb can lay a good foundation for language learning.
Keep a good level of talking in your household. You alone don’t teach language
to your child. He is always learning.
I
am grateful to hear of your care and expectations for your child.
Alexander
Hicken
Yesterday
I had such a fun time playing with my baby. It was almost like we were dancing.
I'd smile and then she'd smile. I'd make a noise and then she'd make a noise.
We played the same game today, and she acted like she had never done it before.
Is it normal for babies to have such a
poor memory? Are there certain things that they are more likely to
remember? Are there things that I can do to help my baby’s memory? Come to
think of it, I can barely remember anything from my own preschool years. Could
it be genetic?
Dear
Abbey,
It
is sad that your children will not remember the great love an time that you
spend with your children; however, there are two types of memory that you can
play with. They are named implicit and explicit.
Implicit
memory is the ability to recall something, but it is dependent on external
source. They cannot remember something on their own; unless, it is presented to
him. Should we give up since they cannot remember on their own will?
This
ability is called explicit memory, which has been found to be developed
cognitively as early as six months of age. Children may not remember what
happened a couple weeks ago unless reminded until they reach the age of three
months. Reminder sessions are can help your children remember observable
actions. What can they remember, and what do you want them to remember without
explicit memory abilities? Your endeavor to understanding of your child’s
remembrance makes me think.
What
is most important in raising children? What should we make as their earliest
memories? How early are these earliest memories? Is this important? Why? How
can we make happen? How will this bless your child? Is messing with this bad to
have a cause in raising your child from the beginning?
How
important is the cause of intellectual development? Is getting ahead of the
majority of people what you want for your children? Is this an expression of
love to accelerate the development of your child? Is this what is best for
children?
Thank
you for your letter
Alexander
Hicken
Chapter
7
My daughter used to go to anyone, but now she cries and acts
scared of almost anyone outside of our family. I'm worried about it because I
need to go back to work soon, and I'm afraid that child care will be a
disaster. She was scared of Santa and wanted nothing to do with him. Is there a
certain age when stranger wariness and separation anxiety are more common? My
husband believes my own anxiety over leaving her is contributing to the
problem. Is that possible?
Dear Abbey,
I assume that your daughter has barely past her first birthday,
for at this time with all the acquired they intensify anew at this year;
furthermore, your anxiety can have a little effect on your child. Your nature
is reflected in your child.
Thank you for your reference in your worries,
Alexander Hicken
Take care
How old are babies before they experience fear or other emotions?
It seems to me that fear is a learned emotion. Are all emotions tied to
cognitive development? When my daughter looks in the mirror, she acts as if a
stranger is looking back at her. How old are children before they become more
self-aware? Is self-awareness required for other emotions to develop?
Dear Abby,
I don’t think emotions can be learned from what I understand. The
multiplicities of emotions are obtained upon cognitive developments. It’s
interesting that you try self-awareness to emotions. It makes sense that you
tie human relations to our emotions. A lot is dependent on it; in fact,
self-awareness is foundational to many emotions. Contentment is inborn upon
comfort. The joy of laughter is often obtained by her 3rd month. In
this time, the joy of human relations opens up a new means of interaction and
life. Anger often comes between 4 – 8 months of age.
A couple fears are developed about the time of her first birthday,
but it can be as early as her ninth month. There is a feel of new social
interaction and new sudden situations.
Then you beloved self-awareness is developed 6 months later, which
will come with pride, embarrassment, and shame.
You are a good thinker, but I beat that it is hard for you to find
the knowledge that you want to learn. Tell me what you learn. Talk to you soon.
Alexander Hicken
I've heard that if you are too strict with babies it can cause
problems with their psychosocial development. Is it true that they can become
fixated on certain issues or stages if you're not sensitive enough or don't
give them enough freedom? What happens if they become fixated? Are most of the
theories in agreement about how to respond to young children? My brother says
it's just a bunch of psycho mumbo-jumbo that is unsupported by research; any
thoughts?
Dear Abby,
Child development is a science, and theories need a lot of
evidence to hold status of its name. The main theory that I think that you are
referring to is Freud holds the Psychoanalytic theory, saying that there are
two sexually drives to come settled with to have healthy development. The first
of which is the body part of the mouth, driving the child to breastfeed, for
this is fundamental to a child’s life. The second has to do with the anus. If
one is forced to wean of breastfeed or begin toilet training too soon, there
are fixations on these pleasure points.
The people that are fixed on their oral development are found eating, drinking, chewing, biting, or talking excessively;
additionally, those that are denied the personal right to settle with their
anal needs are seen to be seek deep control of every aspect of their life,
since they were unable to choose the time of their learning of how to learn for
themselves.
Erikson is another Psychoanalytic theorist spoke of the need of
the individual choice saying the other characteristic developed is a
self-doubt.
The cognitive theory holds that the way that you raise a child is
the perceived norm for a human relationship, but these norms can be moldable,
working models, a standard for their relationship. Other close relationships
can change their working model for relationships.
These are the theories held to be true by developmentalists.
I hope that this answers your question
Alexander Hicken
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